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Burial Date July 11, 1990
Funeral Home O'Connor Funeral Home
Place of Service Our Lady of Fatima Church, Worcester, MA
Section Garden of Prayer Lot Number: 165Grave Number: 1
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Posted by:
kristymaldonado
Posted on:
July 27, 2009
crusty jones here...lol i hated that. miss you so much. everything is so different in this family. would have been so great to see you and jose all grown up together, married with children..we all miss you. love you XOXO
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shelliesanchezperley
Posted on:
September 15, 2007
mom, is here baby with neverending Love for you. so as the days pass my days stand still. So be patient someday soon I wll see when our God is ready for me. Just wait at the gates for me okay? Well I will be beck, Say hello to everyone. And be with the ones here that need you.Well I Love you my dear son. And you are in my thoughts every day. Love always, Ma
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lindasantana
Posted on:
September 15, 2007
Hi Sweetie, it\'s been a while, I know. It\'s just that right now it\'s hard for me. Yes your Mom has never ending love for you and always will. You need to go to her and tell her to take care of herself. Since you left, she hasn\'t been the same. When you left the biggest part of her died, and she just gave up on herself. It has been hard for alot of us to just go on like nothing happened. Something did happen, we lost a part of our life, \"you \". Your sisters and brother have tried to go on but you know I can see they really haven\'t. They are lost without you, just like your Mom. I love her dearly and hope that I don\'t end up losing her too. You know the news, you knew before we even got wind of it. You sit with our Lord up there so you know what is going on too. Please give a message to him for me. Tell him to please not call your Mom home yet. Ask him to make her well again. She is too much loved to leave me now. I know you are looking down on all of us and know that we are afraid. If there is a way for you to visit your Mom, you could tell her not to give up, to be strong like she used to be and to take care of herself. I know this is what you would want. I wish there was someway I would see your Mom happy again, I wish I could help more. Anyway I needed to tell you that right now you are needed desperately to help your family. They miss you so much, that they are having a real hard time living without you. Send them some kind of a sign to let them know you are with them still and not to give up on life. I love and miss you so much too. I miss your smile and the way you used to stop by and visit everyday on your way to or home from school. I mostly miss you and your love. I love you my precious one. Love Aunty Linda
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shelliesanchezperley
Posted on:
September 13, 2007
hello wat up! just wanted to say how much i miss u and wish we could talk. i alwayz could count on u for that , the listening cuz the yellin part wuz the worst. lol no for real things r good and alot is lookin up for me and my fam. ma is doin real good with the not smoking. she misses u so and i know jose does especially now that he is gonna be a dad, married and all. i know yur proud and just keep over him and look out for yur bro. k i know i dont need to ask but i do. so im so excited that im gonna be an aunty again. i luv my nephews and now we all r gonna have a niece. PINK,PINK,PINK. speaking of pink. Shellie and i have been planning a baby shower for Kristy aka Krusty lol it's so exciting cuz its PINK,PURPLE and MINTGREENS. I'm just happy i'm not pushing the baby out. lol Oh! Krusty is having a baby girl and the name is beautiful. Well i just wanted to keep u updated on the fam. I luv U and Miss U Mucho. Luv Yur Big Sis Missie H. Vance Get back at u soon. 1
Posted by:
mayrosenlund
Posted on:
September 11, 2007
Hey cuz, I'm just stopping by to say hi and to ask for strength. Your Mom needs you right now. She needs the strength to do this thing called life. I pray that you'll touch her heart. I could use some strength myself, as I am tired of working day in and day out and I still haven't found a firm yet. I've always prayed to you and so here I am again. Pretty soon you'll be an uncle again. This time, it's a girl! I know you'll be there when she comes into the world... Well, ttyl... love you, May
Posted by:
selinathompson
Posted on:
August 30, 2007
Hey Cuz, Just wanted to stop by and say Hi,and let you know that I Love you,and was thinking bout cha,I'll ttyl cuz I'm sure you'd rather be using those wings rather than hearing my jibba Love Selina
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shelliesanchezperley
Posted on:
August 16, 2007
hello! bro wat up once again yurs truly, me!!! doin good the fam is well but u know the same people that like 2 be in the bizz still do it. but besides all that i miss ya and miss all the talks we alwayz had . dam dawg i miss u and wish i could of told u alot of things i never did. but one thing u know is that i luv u and alwayz will from the bottom of my soul. for real, i wuz lookin at that same star last night and just smiled cuz for a second i thought i seen it twinkle. so i said u go boy. winking at me. i know i look different but thats wat happens when u grow up and age. lol u know i alwayz think of u around me,ma and shellie's birthday. remember the times we did alot of crazy partying? i remember alot of things and try not to forget anything and alwayz think back on them crazy times. but u know dawg mom did a good job and i luv her for hanging in as long as she is, i just wish she would not give up and keep on trying. she got a baby grandbaby coming. its exciting, i so wish u could be here. but its all good, yur here in spirit. right baby boy!! well look gotta go cuz i'm a little tired and gotta get the cookin startin 4 the kids and hubby. o.k. luv u alwayz yur big sis missie hemingway vance 8/07
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shelliesanchezperley
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August 14, 2007
hello bro! just wanna tell u that i have been getting yur signs and i thank u so much 4 lookin out 4 ne-ne. u alwayz said u would look out 4 yur fam and you have kept yur word. but thats u , u alwayz had. lol i miss u and wish all the time on the stars that u could come home just 1 more time. well u missed dawn dupre and rob nieves wedding, it wuz so beautiful and they were so happy. oh! yes shawna and her big but (u alwyz talked about her butt)!! lol she wuz there. the whole wedding party wuz beautiful, and the reception wuz georgous. i think tyrone and i will have our tenth anniv there. yes him and i r doing good and the kids r grown, especially ne-ne 17 yrs old now and jacob he's 5 yrs old. they give us a run for our money. lol lol well things r good and i wanted 2 catch up. i luv u & miss u mucho yur big sis missie 8/07
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selinathompson
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July 7, 2007
Hey Harry, Just stopping by 2 say Hi,remembering this night like it was yesterday,wish u were here. Love u, Selina
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lindasantana
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July 6, 2007
Just stopping by to tell you that I love you and miss you so very much. I know that all your family does too. I wish you were here to talk to, I know you would always have time to listen to me. So how is it up there? Hope you are watching over everyone. I know I sure could use seeing your smile right now. Well I will talk to you again soon even though I do all the time but not on here. I love you. Love Aunty Linda
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mayrosenlund
Posted on:
July 6, 2007
Harry, Auntie Shel just reminded me that today marks 17 years since your death. It's crazy to think that I was only 9 years old and now I'm a grown woman. Thank you for being with me through the years. You helped me to not take life for granted and appreciate the people around me. PS. My professor still hasn't found the video... please help him! Love, May
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tenabooth
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July 6, 2007
Just stopping by to remind you that no one has forgotten you.You will forever be in our hearts.How can anyone forget a face like that and your beautiful smile? LOL Miss and love you very much. Someday, we'll meet again. Luv A. Tena
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mayrosenlund
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June 27, 2007
Harry, How are ya? It feels weird talking to you here after all those years just talking to you anywhere. I felt your presence at my graduation party. Your mom and sisters came so I think that was why. I've always felt you close by so thank you for that. Also Missy gave us some news that was a blessing in disguise. Kevin is not going to be a father after all. Whatever happened, I guess we shouldn't question it. We're all happy for them. I'm going to email my professor about the performance I did about you. I want to see if he still has the video. Can you help him find it for me? I'd love to show it to your mom and others. I love you! Talk to you soon...
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selinathompson
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June 25, 2007
WHATS UP CUZ,JUST WANTED 2 STOP BY AND TELL U I LOVE U AND WISH U WAS HERE,YUR FAMILY REALLY MISSES U SO MUCH,YOU PROBABLY KNOW THAT THOUGH,I NOTICED YUR BIG SIS COMES 2 TALK 2 U ALL THE TIME,AND EVEN THOUGH I DON'T SEE HER MOURN I KNOW SHE DOES ALL THE TIME, U KNOW HER HARD ASS THOUGH SHE WON'T TALK ABOUT IT 2 MUCH LOL,SO U HAVING FUN UP THERE?PLAY ANY TRICKS ON ANY 1?LOL.HEY 4 YUR MOM..........GIVE HER A KISS ON THE CHEEK 2NITE.OK CUZ TTYL AND HEY WHEN I C U AGAIN U OWE ME A NIGHT OF DANCING,IT MAY NOT BE MIXER'S BUT ANY DANCE WILL DO WINK WINK SMOOCHES...SELINA
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shelliesanchezperley
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May 14, 2007
WAT UP BRO! I'M BACK WITH ALOT OF LUV AND SO MUCH EXCITEMENT THAT YUR LITTLE SIS SARAH DID IT! SHE SET OUT TO DO CERTAIN THINGS AT JOB CORPS AND SHE ACCOMPLISHED ALL OF IT . THATS OUR BABY AND I'M SO HAPPY CUZ WE ALL HAD TO DO ALOT OF PUSHING AND YELLING, BUT SHE SURE PROVED US WRONG. WELL U KNOW YUR NEPHEW NE-NE HAD TO THROW ALOT OF NEGATIVE AT HER BUT IT WORKED CUZ SHE MADE SURE TO PROVE HIM WRONG. LOL LOL WHICH THAT WUZ A GOOD THING CUZ I GOT TIRED OF TRYING TO KEEP HER GOING. YES I'M GOING THROUGH A HARD TIME BUT U KNOW ME I'M A SURVIVER AND A FIGHTER SO I REFUSE TO GIVE UP ON ME. I KNOW I CAN ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING AS LONG AS I KEEP MY MIND ON IT. I HAVE DID ALOT OF BACK TRACKING IN MY LIFE AND TRYING NOT TO ANYMORE. WELL I'M MOVING AGAIN AND HOPEFULLY THIS TIME WE STAY PUT. YUR NEPHEW KEVIN IS GETTING SO BIG AND JACOB IS A BAD ASS BUT HE'S MY BABY AND THE LAST ONE. I KNOW YUR LOOKING DOWN ON US AND DOING WAT YUR SUPPOSE TO DO AND I'M GREATFUL FOR THAT. I JUST WISH U WERE HERE TO SEE YUR NEPHEWS GROW UP. SERENA'S KIDS R SO BIG DAKARI AND DWAYNE JR. ARE SO BEAUTIFUL AND SO SMART. U WOULD BE SO PROUD OF ALL YUR NEPHEWS , HOPEFULLY WHEN YUR BRO JOS'E & JENNY HAVE THERE BABY IT WILL BE A GIRL. MA WILL BE SO EXCITED CUZ IT WILL BE HER "FIRST" GRANDDAUGHTER AND OUR FIRST NIECE. THAT CHILD IS GOING TO BE SPOILED ROTTEN, BETWEEN OUR FAM AND JENNY'S FAM HE OR SHE WILL BE SET. I THINK I ALSO TOLD U ABOUT KEVIN SOMETIME IN SEPTEMBER HE IS GONNA BE A FATHER. I KNOW HE IS SO YOUNG BUT DONT WORRY BRO THIS YEAR WHEN HE GOES BACK IT'S HIS LAST YEAR!!! I'M SO EXCITED CUZ WITH ALL THE PUSHIN AND YELLING AND WITH ALOT OF DRILLING IT INTO HIS HEAD THAT SCHOOL IS #1. ALL THE OTHER THINGS LIKE GIRLS AND ETC. CAN WAIT. DON'T WORRY YUR BIG SIS HAS IT ALL UNDER CONTROL. WELL LOOK I LUV U AND U R ALWAYZ ON MY MIND. I'M GONNA END THIS FOR NOW BUT I WILL BE BACK SOON O.K. LUV U INFINITY AND BEYOND ONE!!!
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lindasantana
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May 5, 2007
Hi Sweetie, It's me again. I was talking to your Mom this morning and she asked me if I could do her a favor. She wants me to let you in on some real good news. Alot of people didn't think your sister would make it but guess what ? Sarah graduated !!! Isn't that wonderful ? She showed them all even though many a times she just wanted to give up. Yep, she graduated and also got her Culinary Art's certificate. Now she is going for her license next. She has worked real hard and has accomplished what she set out to do. Aren't you proud of her ? Jose is very proud of her and told her too. It means alot coming from her brother. If only you were here it would of made it more special. You are always here in Spirit though and in all of our hearts and minds forever. Well I just wanted to give you the great news. I am so excited and proud of her too. I will talk to you again sweetie. Love Aunty Linda
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lindasantana
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May 1, 2007
Hey Handsome, It's been awhile since I've been here I know. It isn't easy, it's really hard for me. You was so very like one of my own children and losing you really broke my heart. It has been a long, long lonely road for me without you here to make my day so much brighter. I know I can talk to you any time but it still isn't the same as seeing your smile and you giving me one of those great big warm hugs. It's hard to keep going but I do it. I have to take one day at a time and hope someday we can all be together in that so called Paradise. When you left, you took a piece of my heart with you, part of me died that day. My heart goes out to your Mom , sisters and brother always and I pray that they do find some peace someday. I know you are up there keeping a eye out for them. Help them to know that you will always be there in spirit for now. I know your big Sis really needs your help, she is hurting. Guide her in the right path and give her strength. I love and miss you so much and your every morning visits on the way to school. You would always brighten up the day, just by stopping by and letting me know how much you cared. Well my handsome I will get back on here again even though I talk to you anyway. Never forget we all miss you so. Love Aunty, Linda
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shelliesanchezperley
Posted on:
April 30, 2007
Wat up bro? Well have been thinkin alot bout u. Been havin real weird dreams but i know u will guide me to the right path. Miss u Mucho!! I know one day we will meet again cuz yur just away not gone. I feel u looking over me and mines and luv u from my soul. Bro haven't seen her in passing and have not bumped into her mom. Sorry! I feel like i'm failin u but i promise i'll never give up. Luv U , Miss U Mucho 1 Yur Big Sis Missie H. Vance & Family
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shelliesanchezperley
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April 15, 2007
Hey! big sis here, wanted to drop alot of luv yur way. Have been thinkin of u alot and i know u do the same. Went to see mom a couple of dayz ago and she's doing the same, missing and thinking of u alwayz. I know its hard for mom and she will never get over u away, i believe everyone in the fam will never really get over u away. I know i cant no matter how much counceling i do. LoL Well kevin is doing great in school, has one year left and then on to college. I'm very excited and knowing yur watching over us gives me so much strength to keep on track with my marriage and children. Thank u so much for yur guidance. Never told u this before but u gave me the courage, strength and the will to help ma and my siblings to get through when u went away. I will alwayz say u "went away" cuz u didnt leave us yur just "away" right now. Well gotta go for now but be back soon and i luv u and miss u "mucho!" Luv u 4/Life Missie H. Vance "07"
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shelliesanchezperley
Posted on:
April 8, 2007
hello bro! wanted to write to let u know that i found matteo and it has been something i haven't given up on. thought u would like to know. also wanted u to know that i think of u every wakeing moment. Its been very lonely without u and wish u were here to see yur nephews Kevin, Edwin & Jacob. yes all boys never got my girl but thats o.k. cuz i have four god daughters. I know yur looking down on us with a smile and good thoughts. Just want u to know that i luv and miss u from the bottom of my soul. Since u went away i think of how u would look being 32 years old. Well we all know that u would look good no matter how old u got. Kevin has grown up to be such a good kid and will make a good father himself. Yes he will be a dad this august, i know he is to young but u know how kids listen. lol So anyways things with me r good and i got married 1 year ago today 4/8/07, it doesn't feel no different. oh! By the way i married Tyrone Vance and we had a beautiful boy named Jacob D\'angelo and he is a handful but has such a spunky attitude. Now u know where that comes from \"us\". lol I know one day we will see one another again but theres times where i wish it would be sooner cuz its so lonely down here without u. FYI I know there is a daughter out there without a father but she could have a Nana, aunts, uncles, cousins. But she has a mother who is stubborn and worries what other people think. the mother also needs to realize that yur daughter should be a part of our lives not only her familys lives. But its all good cuz one day she will have to answer to the lord himself. The only grudge i have is we have already missed 17 years of her growing up, she was born the night u went away. That wuz a gift from u and we wanted to open our hearts to her but wasnt able. Anyways sorry it took so long but i still have trouble 2 this day dealing with i wont be able 2 see u for along time but until next time. I luv u and miss u alwayz. one luv yur big sis Missie Hemingway Vance
Posted by:
kaylacoffin
Posted on:
February 23, 2007
Hey handsome, I just wanted to tell you some good news. Your brother which has married not too long ago is now going to be a Daddy. He is so excited, well they both are. Him and Jen. They make a wonderful couple I'll tell you. I'm sure they will be very loving parents too. Something new to look forward to. It's almost hard to believe that you all are grown up now. I can remember when you were all so little and cuddly. That was my favorite time cause I could hold you, hug and kiss you. Wow where did all the time go? Jose has grown into a sweet, handsome, gentle, loving man. It is so good to see that he finally can have some happiness and be with someone that really loves him. I can see all the love they have for each other just by their eyes. Well I just wanted to let you know that you will be a Uncle again soon. Oh Kristy and Jen are due around the same time. Isn't that lovely? I am also going to be a Nana again. Twice this year !! That will make 14 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild. Your Aunt is getting old huh? Anyway I just wanted to tell you the good news and also tell you that I love and miss you sooo very much my sweets. Love Aunt Linda
Posted by:
nannettesouthworth
Posted on:
January 17, 2007
hi honey, my heart broke when i heard of your sudden death. though it has been many years since ive seen you trust me you were never to far from my thoughts. i think about the times you and your brother and sisters and i shared when we lived together many times and how i watch you all grow into beautiful adults alot for an aunt to be proud of you know. we shared alot of special memories with your mom and you kids and my brother bruce who loved all you kids so much. it's sad for me to know of your passing but i know your looking down watching over your beautiful, sisters, and brother jose as well as your mom. may god bless you my sweet angel. your always in my thoughts and prayers. love you always ! aunty nannette oxoxoxoxoxox
Posted by:
kaylacoffin
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December 20, 2006
Hi Sweetie, it's Aunt Linda again. I just wanted to tell you that I love and miss you so very much. Everyone is getting ready for the holidays but not too many are in the holiday spirit. We need to give them a little boot huh? I know if you were here you would get them going and smile at least. You were always the Joker in the family. You could make them smile even if they didn't want to right? You might not be here physically but you are in spirit and in our hearts. You will always be with us every time we think of you. Your Mom is having a little bit of a hard time but that is to be expected. She is doing much better healthwise and starting to take care of herself. I know her and I were real close but since I moved out here I don't get to see her too much. She is always in my thoughts and I do call her.She is a big softy now and full of love to give. She does get lonely alot but your sisters keep her on her toes so don't worry. My you must be so handsome and grown up into a fine young man now. Wish I could see you and give you a great big hug and kiss. Well I just wanted to let you know that you are always thought of with so much love. We keep your spirit alive with our cherished and funny times we all shared. Your brother Jose is doing good but I know it is hard for him with you not being here to share all his special moments with. Especially his wedding. He was such a handsome groom and Gen a beautiful bride. You would of been so proud and happy for him. Who knows you probably would of been married before him if I know you. Anyway keep watching over your family and give them a little boot to keep them going huh? Love Aunt Linda
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mayrosenlund
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December 9, 2006
Cousin May and her husband Paul
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jodiemcdaniel
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December 3, 2006
Jose and Jen
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jodiemcdaniel
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December 3, 2006
Sarah and Karen
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jodiemcdaniel
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December 3, 2006
Missie and Kevin
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December 3, 2006
Liz and Missie
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kristymaldonado
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December 1, 2006
Hi Harr, Crusty Jones here, a name you gave me which i hated so much. Missing you and the times we shared and you making up stories for me to tell so you wouldn't get in trouble with all your girlfriends. Miss hanging with jose too...don't get to see him much.You two would have been the best of friends if you were here right now. Wish he could have you back and your mom too. wonderful lady she is, precious to my heart along with a few others. anyway, just wanted you to know i love and miss you too much. Love you Cuz'
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jodiemcdaniel
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December 1, 2006
Cousin Jodie
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jodiemcdaniel
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December 1, 2006
John
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jodiemcdaniel
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December 1, 2006
Keith
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mayrosenlund
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November 29, 2006
Jose and you... twins...
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mayrosenlund
Posted on:
November 27, 2006
Since the day you died, I've looked to you for guidance. And I believe you've been there every time. Your death affected me in ways that have shaped me as a person - young woman humbled by God, life, and death. Your death still affects us all. It's like a ripple effect. I often wonder how each of us would have turned out if you were still here. I know things would be different. I just don't know how different. But instead, you welcomed so many others up there. I know you have been with each of us. We miss you so much. I still have the candle from your vigil. I've only lit it once since that day. Love you cuz... Love, May
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lindasantana
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November 27, 2006
It touches my heart to see everyone talk to you since I let them know about this website. I miss you so much it isn't funny. Your Mom has been sad seeing the holidays coming and your not here to share them with us. I talked with her yesterday. Her heart is heavy with the pain of losing you but life has to go on no matter what. You are here with us in our hearts and spirit and I know you are up there watching over all of us until it is our time to join you. Yeah it is difficult without you here and I know your brother Jose misses you dearly also. He just got married to a lovely young woman and they love each other deeply. They are so good together, you'd be proud of him. Anyway I will talk to you again , Until then I am as always thinking of you. Love Aunt Linda
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lindasantana
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November 17, 2006
Remembering the three dates you had at once because you forgot about making the first ones. That was some pickle to get out of huh? Also how you used to stop by and see me every day after school on your way home. Wondering how handsome you would be today. I love you. Love Aunt Linda
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tenabooth
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November 13, 2006
emptyn1955@peoplepc.com Thinking of you during the holiday season. I love and miss you so much. Love Auntie Tena
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kristymaldonado
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July 20, 2006
A life cut short, a soul so missed. I love you too much!! cousin Kristy
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lindasantana
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July 19, 2006
" Remembering all the good times" I love you always, Aunty Linda